My Epitath

So I'm now single. And in many ways I feel like the real struggle begins. No more distractions, I'm faced with myself and cancer. How will I date again one day? How will I live with this thing?

I am very scared to be alone. I also realized recently that many times when people hear cancer, they automatically assume you are going to die. I am now realizing why my parents have been keeping this a secret. I think they've wanted to help shield me from people's sometimes insensitive comments.

Been trying to read some more about God and cancer online, bits of sermons.

I went to Palm Springs for a night this wknd with a friend. It was very soothing. 

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